Shia Strength: [shia_strength] Re: Issue of the week: Disputes among relatives and family members.

Saturday, May 22, 2010

[shia_strength] Re: Issue of the week: Disputes among relatives and family members.

Thanks mohammad Ali for your reply and also taking part is this discussion.
It is duty of all the momineen to write their own amaal nama and forgive others.
ws

--- In shia_strength@yahoogroups.com, Muhammad Ali <smali_system@...> wrote:
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> Dear Brothers and Sisters,
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> we have all already listen many things like that in our lives that we have to make our relatives closer. But frankly speaking in todays life we think our relatives our enemies mostly. I am not saying that only one side is responsible for this, we know that both sides are responsible. But what we have to do. Should we move forward with forgiveness or still remain on haram by justifying it by developing our reasons. The choice is ours. we all are old enough to understand what is right and what is wrong but we only focus on our those matters which are related to this material world only and only to benefit our selves. I think as my opinion we can not move forward unless untill we start forgiving others and start thinking for the benefit of others.
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> Thanks and Best Regards,
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> Syed Muhammmad Ali Haider Naqvi.
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> From: masoom110 <masoom110@...>
> To: shia_strength@yahoogroups.com
> Sent: Sat, May 22, 2010 7:31:43 AM
> Subject: [shia_strength] Issue of the week: Disputes among relatives and family members.
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> In usool e kafi our respected Imam Imam Jafar Sadegh (A. S.) said Respect your elders and strengthen relationships to your own relatives.
> and at other place said "Paying visits to one's own relatives makes the houses habitable and increases the life of humanity even if its agents could not be competent. Amali e toosi
> we all know Sila-e-Rahmi (maintaining blood relation by good and benevolent treatment) is wajib Qata-e-Rami (cutting off, severance of blood relations by bad or oppressive treatment) is Haram.
> I hope member will take this issue seriously and discuss here to give the solution as this Haram is common. I repeat that i hope members will take this issue more seriously than zanjeer matam .
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