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Saturday, March 29, 2014

[shia_strength] !!! One Ummah !!! Urdu/English

 

یاد رکھیں

ہم صرف مسلمان ہیں

اور تمام مسلمانوں کا تعلق

ایک امت سے ہے 
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Muslim Unite Shia and Sunni Khutbah : Saudi Islam fosters the refugee problem

 

THE STREET MMBAR
JUM'AH KHUTBAH (28 March 2014)
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It is in such a manner that We make plain Our signs so that the course of the
Criminals may become clear.
Bismillah Ar-Rahmaan Ar-Raheem.
Alhumdulillah. Peace and blessings on Muhammad (sallalahu alaihi wa sallam), his Noble Companions and Family.
Dear committed brothers and dear committed sisters …
 
 
SAUDI ISLAM FOSTERS THE REFUGEE PROBLEM
As a follow up and as an extension to the general ideas that were presented in the last khutbahs concerning this whole phenomenon (of) the imposed administration and the occupying force (or) the occupying power in the Masjid- the occupation extends from Makkah to Washington- we mentioned that much of it is to do with an imbalance in worldly power. These people who force others to do certain things such as forcing us to pray outside here in the street simply have the wealth and the force that comes with it and for it and by it and to it. These two (i.e.) power and wealth go together. This didn't only dislocate us as we find ourselves being forced to pray in the street it also should not have dislocated our thoughts and our feelings. Some people suffer from a dislocation of thoughts and feelings! They think that if they don't have worldly power then they don't have power at all?! They don't know that this type of feeling and that type of idea tends to cancel them as subjects of Allah and we just make du'a for them. There's no bad feelings in our hearts towards any of them except if they know the truth and they are trying to play games with that truth. Those we are cautious of and we refer their affair to Allah. Back to this issue- they have power, they have wealth and all of this. This is a jum'ah, this is a khutbah- Allah and His Prophet are our reference points. What happens? What do we say to people who are dislocated and this dislocation has become a matter of refugees, a matter of dispossessed, a matter of people who find they have no homes and they have no homelands? We don't have a Masjid. OK- that's partial dislocation. There are people who don't have much more than that! They don't have a home to go to, they don't have a country that they can feel that is their own country. This is a real human condition in today's world. We find "hey wait a minute here- we have a problem here that never existed before." No it's not unique! This is a problem that seems to be a constant in human affairs and human history.  It was there in the past, its here now and it will continue to linger into the future especially when we who are supposed to be responsible for straightening up these issues find that "wait a minute here, we don't have what it takes to do that."
 
We refer you, (and you can take these ayaat in the time of your mental accessibility, the time that you have off, or the time you find available to you), to these ayaat (which) are number seven through ten in Surah Al Hashr. These ayaat speak about dislocation, refugees, money, accommodations, commitment to Allah (i.e.) all the ingredients we have in today's world with the problems of dislocation, physical dislocation from the Masjid, emotional and mental dislocation from Allah even though there are rituals all around the place and then the larger dislocation of tens of millions (and) in some cases hundreds of millions of refugees in the world. We're going to read these ayaat and we're going to give you the gist of their translated meanings. It's alright- it a little long but bear with us; it's necessary for the khutbah. What are the meanings of these ayaat seven to the ayah ten of Surah Al Hashr? The meanings of these ayaat can be summarised, (this is the summarisation of these meanings translated into English)
The revenue that comes from Allah to His Messenger… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Many interpreters concentrate the meaning of revenue in the spoils of war (but it is) not necessarily so.
… whatever revenue there is that comes from Allah to His Prophet then that belongs to… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Remember when we said previously wealth (and) resources belong to Allah? Well this right now is a reminder of that.
… when you have people who are in need, people who don't have homes, people who don't have a country, people who don't have a place they can call their own- whatever revenue comes from Allah goes to them; to those who are closer to you… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Obviously if you have a relative who is a refugee then you are responsible for your relative who is a refugee then you are to a distant person who is a refugee (and) who has no relation to you.
… orphans, those who put out the effort to gain all the wherewithal in life but fall short, a person who's always moving from place to place… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
He's called, literally, ibn as sabil (which) means son of the path. He spends so much time on one road, and another avenue, and a third street, and a fourth access lane, etc. He keeps on going in these avenues in life because he or she don't have a residence, they don't have a place to stay. So what comes from Allah as revenue from Allah to His Prophet goes to them. The ayah is saying it but the problem with our understanding it (is) we have so much established ideas that we grow up with (that) when Allah is giving us clear instructions we just read it and we don't think! Give it a thought: "What does this mean in my life? What do I do? How did this play out?" Then the ayah goes on to say
And the poor from among the Muhajirin… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Here is where we come to concentrate a little bit more thought. We all say "the Prophet is our prototype. The Prophet is our model. We follow him." OK- what did he do when he was himself a refugee? He was forced to leave Makkah and there was a segment of society which was also forced to leave Makkah. They were called Al Muhajirin (radi Allahu anhum). These were refugees. What's a Muhajir? You know they say emigrant. Cut it out! Throw that word out of your mouth and dictionary! They're not emigrants. These were people who were forced (and) who were expelled due to the social conditions and the threats and intimidation and torture that they were subjected to. They didn't one day wake up and say "oh I'm going to immigrate, I'm going to leave Makkah and go to Al Madinah." That's the way it was?! How do you read your history? These were people who were in the "pressure cooker." They were being "fried and stewed" night and day until they were forced to leave their own possessions, their own territory, their own land, their own home, their own domicile, their own birth place. They had to leave it under threats of death- that's how the prophet left. They threatened him every way and he stayed but when they made up their mind in a collective fashion, (i.e.) let's all kill him together so that later on there's not going to be a civil war among us (and) when they agreed to do that he left Makkah. They wanted to assassinate him. He's an emigrant? And what- was he given emigrant status in Yathrib in Al Madinah? "Oh the Prophet of Allah is an emigrant in Al Madinah." Is that the way you perceive your history? That's the way you think?! Bluntly speaking he was a refugee- a special refugee because the people in Al Madinah acknowledged him as Allah's Prophet and he became the leader of Al Madinah. That's rare! A refugee becomes a leader of a certain other environment and society?! Well that's what happened. Along with the Prophet there were other refugees called Al Muhajirin. Refugee is not the most accurate word in the world but it is definitely more accurate then the word emigrant. He emigrated?! How upsetting it is when a person encounters this type of rendition or translation or version of history. You see- we destroy ourselves by the words that we use and this is one of them. OK, so these Muhajirin- a word that all of you are familiar with because it's a Qur'anic word, it's a Prophetic word; it and its derivatives are mentioned many many times in the Qur'an- had to leave Makkah and went to Al Madinah. So what happened? Ask yourself what happened? Were they left to be considered (as) "oh they are a sub-stratum of society? They are lower class" as refugees are today? Remember we're Muslims. We say "Allah and His Prophet" night and day! We say a lot of things with our tongues but what does our behaviour say? We have refugees among us- how do we treat them? Do we treat them the same way the Muhajirin were treated in Al Madinah? Allah in these ayaat says about Al Ansar (radi Allahu anhum), the human support base in Al Madinah
… they love (or) they like those who have come to them as refugees (or) as displaced people who took this effort of abandoning the domain of persecution in Makkah and coming now to their homes… (Surah Al Hashr verse 9)
That's how they were received. The ayah describes the Ansar
… and they prefer the Muhajirin to their own selves even if they were in need… (Surah Al Hashr verse 9)
Meaning if the Ansar of Al Madinah looked at their own condition and looked at the condition of this Muhajir, (i.e.) this displaced person, and even if they were in need of something (or) even if they were in need of whatever it was- food, some form of utility, whatever- they would give it to the Muhajir rather than have it themselves.
… those who are able to avoid this stinginess in them, then they're going to be successful. (Surah Al Hashr verse 9)
It's a give attitude. This is the psychology we are going to have to turn inside out from the type of psychology that we have. Today everyone wants to gather stuff and accumulate and collect and save and all of this stuff- that has to change. We have to act just when the Prophet came to Al Madinah. There was what was called al mu'aakhaat. He made brothers out of strangers. First of all the Muhajirin were brothers of each other and then the Muhajirun were coupled with the Ansar. We tell you- we read the Qur'an so many times and there are competitions for beautiful voices but there's no competitions for beautiful minds (or) beautiful ideas about the Qur'an! (There's) just competitions for beautiful voices, tajwid and tartil and all of this stuff but have you ever heard about competitions for ideas that are generated by the Qur'an? No! We're not supposed to generate ideas!? The same status quo problems that began way back then… In light of these ayaat we can tell you the ayah says
The revenue that Allah has given from Him, from these urban areas…
OK- what do you do with that? Where does it go to? Who does it belong to? This ayah says
Whatever revenue there is that comes from Allah to His Prophet then that belongs to Allah and His Prophet and people who are in need, people who don't have homes, people who don't have a country, people who don't have a place they can call their own, to those who are closer to you, the orphans, those who put out the effort to gain all the wherewithal in life but fall short, a person who's always moving from place to place… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
 
During Uthman (radi Allahu anhu) time most of this got stuck with
… to those who are closer to you… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Well, what happened to the others? What are we saying here? Uthman is a bad man? Nastaghfirullah. We're not saying that. Was he impeccable? No! But we can trace some of these mistakes. Why do you get stuck here? When he was asked (about) all of this money all of this revenue the treasury that's beginning to build up- you know the Islamic state at the time was very modest (and) very humble in what it had but the wherewithal began to come in and he was asked why is this disproportionate amount going to your relatives? He says well the ayah here says
… to those who are closer to you… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Ok fine, but only to dhi al qurba'? Why is it that we have simultaneously when there's an affluent dhi al qurba' we have a dispossessed yatama and masakin and ibn as sabil? Why? We can't ask? No! We're not supposed to think! These Masajid are created specifically to lock you out of your own mind! What are we saying? "Oh these are bad people?" These are victims of their own traditions- they don't know it. Oh Allah guide my people because they're ignorant. So they don't want these types of ideas to break loose. If these ideas can touch base with Muslims here and there we'd have a beginning of something; but no, one of their tactics is to lock you out. "Throw them out of the Masjid" for thirty one years. What do you think? Where's all the Muslims around? Come on- be just a common sense person (and) a reasonable individual. (Do) you mean to tell us for thirty one years Muslims are not aware of what is going on?! (The) facts speak for themselves.
 
When the Prophet went to Al Madinah and he coupled in brotherhood Al Muhajirin and Al Ansar, what did this brotherhood mean? It meant that there was no discrimination. In today's world and in today's social psychology we have discrimination of individuals who are foreign. "Oh, you're coming from Makkah to Al Madinah? You belong in Makkah. You don't belong here." At that time these cities were like city states; just like today we have country states in those times they had city states. "Oh, you're coming from Makkah" is like being from another country. Don't get fooled by- all of this is in the Arabian Peninsula. Socially and psychologically speaking it's like today saying someone has one nationality and another person has another nationality. It's similar to that but when the Prophet brought them altogether that type of discrimination, by and large, was gone. We saw (and) we made reference on how it erupted a couple of times during his presence among them and he told them part with it, meaning this asabiyah, because it stinks, bluntly speaking (and) overloading the translation. That's what he said about this (but) we carry it with us. So the truth of the matter is discrimination was absent and equality was present. Then the Prophet went to the extent of making it mandatory that inheritance is applicable in this context, meaning that if one of these two brothers one from Makkah and the other from Al Madinah- they're not relatives at all. There's no blood relationship between them. The only relationship is this moral brotherhood (and) this social brotherhood between them- was to die he would be considered to be like the brother of the other in inheritance up until the time when the ayah in Surah Al Anfal was revealed.
… but blood relatives are nearer to one another regarding inheritance … (Surah Al Anfal verse 7)
That means here we had an ayah that is nasikhah and a Prophet's policy that was mansukha- nasikh and mansukh applies here. The question is what if we had all of these conditions regenerated again (i.e.) we had refugees, we had displaced people, we had two camps that were at odds with each other? What if the dynamics and the facts that were alive during the Prophets time came back now? Would anyone have the courage to say to some refugees who came to an Islamic domain "you are our brothers?" You ask yourself could this happen? Will this happen? Did this happen? Is it happening? You judge for yourself. Take the information that you have about today's world and see whether these types of things happen or they don't happen and see whether we measure up to the example and the prototype of Allah's Prophet.
 
We'll take it a step further if you want because we know there are barriers placed between us and extending these instructions and these guidelines to the social, political context to the world. We know some of you come from different backgrounds (and) we're going to take just one example. Have the Palestinians- who are displaced people, they're refugees. They are also forced to leave their homelands and their homes- been received in the same way the Muhajirin were received anywhere? We ask you and we want you to try to answer this question in yourself. The argument by officialdom in Arabian countries is "if we assimilate these Palestinians their whole issue is going to die. Then there will not be people and forces and policies and budgets, etc. to liberate Palestine." Ok- if we follow Allah's Prophet why don't we take this the other way around? Why don't we place today's officialdom in the context of Makkah and Al Madinah fourteen hundred years ago and why can't we say "well this is wrong. To have the few hundred Muhajirin from Makkah assimilate in Al Madinah is wrong because if they are treated equally (or) if they become equal citizens (or) if they become on an equal par (and) if they right now become subjects of the Islamic state in Al Madinah then they're not going to be bothered with Makkah. There's not going to be anyone who's going to call for the liberation of Makkah." Of course, that's nonsense. All of the Prophet's efforts and strategy was concentrated for twenty three years on liberating Makkah and the liberation came by making the refugees on an equal par with those they are living with. So if it applied then why can't it apply today? Who said if the Palestinians become citizens of an Islamic domain- we're not telling them become citizens of an secular state. The nature of a secular state is the way they think and express themselves, i.e. Palestinians have to be Palestinians, Syrians have to be Syrians, Jordanians have to be Jordanians, Egyptians have to be Egyptians, etc. That's how seculars think. The seculars in Egypt today destroyed a hundred and thirty seven tunnels. These tunnels go between Ghazzah and Egypt. It's the lifeline of two million people who are living in Ghazzah and they destroy a hundred and thirty seven of them. The Egyptian secular government is doing that while it is at war with its own Islamic component population! At the same time there are other tunnels in occupied Palestine right now that are expanding and being extended around Al Masjid Al Aqsa and beneath Al Masjid Al Aqsa and no one speaks about that! Why? Because they want to stifle the whole issue and it all begins where? When we are incapable of bringing these meanings up to date!
 
We're sorry to interfere with the programmed ideas that many people have and we've lived in the past hundred years with a political monopoly of words. There's a public mind out there that if you say the word communism goes "Ohh!"; if you say the word socialist, if you say the word Indian meaning American Indian not the Indians from the sub-continent but what the Americans call in a derogative way red Indian goes "Ohh!" At one time if you said the word Jew- "Ohh!" Now you say Muslim- "Ohh!" What's "Oh!" about? Where did this come from? We look at the true meanings of people (and) who they are so when we take a look at our own history we find there is an equality in these ayaat
… so that money does not become a closed circuit operation among a few who are rich from among you … (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
A hadith from Allah's Prophet narrated in different ways says generic people or all the people share three things: water, fire and vegetation (or) what springs out of the earth. We're not talking about people who have their own land and they are farming it. No, excluding a person's farming of his own land everything that comes out of the rest of the land in the world is shared the rest of the people in the world. All the water in the world- all! Fire here indicates what we would call today heating. If you're going to use gas to heat (or) if you're going to use petroleum to heat that becomes a possession of the people. It's not a possession of royal families of a cartel or a certain government. No! This belongs to people. Another hadith says if you receive a price for water, for heating and for vegetation of the earth it is haram. Now you tell us, unfortunately, mankind had an experience of over a hundred years that wanted to socialise resources but did it in the name of atheism. How about socialising resources and doing it in the name of Allah and in the name of His Prophet? We can't do something like that? They'll say "what are you trying to do? You're trying to mix (atheism)?" No one is trying to do or mix anything. We're not inferior here, we are not second kicks to atheistic, communists or to God denying socialists, etc. Nothing like that! They wanted to do something good (but) they went about doing it the wrong way but we can't speak about these issues?! "Take them off the table. Oh, look who's talking about distributing wealth. It's the political left so you Muslims have to shut up! If the political left is speaking about these issues you cannot!" This is the mentality that is propagated in these manabir in these Masajid and that's why we are where we are today. For those who are especially particular of "where did you get the hadith?" Where did this hadith come from? It came from, surprisingly, the most authentic sources of those who don't want us to speak about these issues and that is ibn Hanbal and ibn Majah. They will find these hadiths in the most reliable sources that they have and we refer them as we did in the past thirty one years to Allah.
 
Dear committed Muslims…
We're doing this from khutbah to khutbah because we can't speak about Allah's instructions and His Prophet's teachings while making believe that there is no enemy in this world out to get you. We're not in a dream world! This is real and if you stand for justice there is going to be individuals and establishments that are going to be against you and it only takes a cursory consideration of our Prophetic history (and) our scriptural account of events to understand that this is in the nature of things. So why can't we speak about justice when it comes to those who have occupied our Masajid and displaced us in the tens of millions. If we're only about forty individuals in the street every week there are forty and a hundred and forty million refugees who have been displaced in the world and it can be directly attributable to those who are institutionalising our ignorance. (Do) you hear that? They are institutionalising our ignorance! You go to jum'ah every week (and) the same way you enter the Masjid you exit the Masjid, (i.e.) thoughtless and de-activated. That's what they want, they want the status quo to continue. Brothers and sisters- we heard two things (from) some of their so called scholars- these are Saudi scholars who toe the Saudi line- that may interest you. One of them… He was railing. He's a known person (who) gets invited all over the place. Listen to this, (we've never heard this before and we would not mention this except to prove to you how ignorant and how offensive that ignorance becomes), he said in a ranting of his against the Shi'is "these Shi'is take away Sunni babies in places like Iran or Afghanistan or Iraq and they boil them to death and after these babies die they wrap them up and take them to the homes of the parents who then unwrap these babies and look at the condition of their dead baby in front of their eyes." Now a person who's a scholar who should know that this is a total fabrication and a lie (but) this is coming out of the mouth of a so called scholar! Another "scholar" says, (listen to this), "it is haram for a Muslim to sit beside another attractive Muslim man." He was asked "why do you say it is haram?" He said "because the attractive man can stimulate the sexual appeal in the other man so its haram to sit beside him." That says more about that individual than it says about the whole history and the whole knowledge about sexuality.
 
This khutbah was presented by Imam Muhammad Asi on the occasion of Jum'ah on 14 March 2014 on the sidewalk of Embassy Row in Washington D.C. The Imam previously led the daily and Jum'ah prayers inside the Masjid. His speeches were revolutionary and thought provoking, and eventually irritated and threatened the Middle-East Ambassadors who control the Masjid. Finally, the Imam, his family, and other Muslims faithful to the course of Islam were forced out, into the streets. This khutbah originates from the sidewalk across the street from the Islamic Center, currently under seige.  
 

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Monday, March 24, 2014

[shia_strength] Fwd: Daily Hadith:23rd Jumada al-Awwal 1435 (24th March 2014)

 

Bismillah Walhamdulillah Was Salaatu Was Salaam 'ala Rasulillah

As-Salaam Alaikum Wa-Rahmatullahi Wa-Barakatuhu

23rd Jumada al-Awwal 1435 (24th March 2014)

Narrated Abu Huraira (Radi Allahu 'anhu):

Allah's Apostle (Sallallahu 'Alaihi Wa Sallam) said, "The angels keep on
asking Allah's forgiveness for anyone of you, as long as he is at his
Musalla (praying place) and he does not pass wind (Hadath). They say, 'O
Allah! Forgive him, O Allah! be Merciful to him."

Bukhari Vol. 1 : No. 436

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Trying To Build Society based on Peace and Justice
The one who love Imam e zaman(a.t.f.s) must be prepared to struggle and
labour his self, his pen and his wealth in the way of Imam e
zaman(a.t.f.s)
I remember the words of Imam (a.s), that we are responsible for the
duty, and not for the result. A warm smile washes away the tension of
confusion, as I thank Allah for the presence of my friend, whom Allah
may protect, and guide
IMAM E ZAMANA (a.f.t.s) Bless you And All Your Family those help others
and learn islam.
Syed Mohamad Masoom Abidi
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Sunday, March 23, 2014

[shia_strength] The Secret to Instilling Humility in Children

 

 

The Secret to Instilling Humility in Children

 

A humble person is not someone who thinks he's nothing. He knows he's something, but he recognizes God as the source of his greatness. Thinking one is something without recognizing God as the source leads to arrogance.

 

TAKE PLEASURE NOT PRIDE

 

We want to teach our children that they are special, talented, skilled, and everything wonderful, but we also want to teach them that all these are a gift from God.

 

Children should take pleasure in their accomplishments, not pride. Your son could have used his physical ability and strength to be a bully in the schoolyard, but instead chose to participate and excel in sports. Your daughter's academic accomplishments means she used the brain that God gave her for something good. Both children should take great pleasure in that.

 

HUMILITY ENGENDERS RESPECT FOR OTHERS

 

Since the humble person recognizes his inner strengths, he has the confidence to recognize greatness in others. An arrogant 10-year-old thinks he's better than his friends, because (for example) he is such a great reader, whereas the child who has humility knows he's a great reader but also recognizes that other kids are good at things like sports, math, science and history.

 

It's the small-minded person who puts others down. Really big people make others feel big too. We all want our children to know and appreciate who they are, and to respect others.

 

KNOWING ONE'S PLACE

 

If I'm not an electrician, I cannot tell my electrician how to rewire my socket. I could make suggestions, of course, in a polite and modest  manner, as in, "Excuse me Mr. Electrician, is it possible that you forgot to put the connector wire in the socket?" Since the electrician is the expert in this situation, it's right of me to ask him, rather than to tell him. It would be rude and out of place for me to tell him how to do his job.

 

A child must respect the experience, knowledge and maturity of those who are older than he is. This attitude can be instilled in our children by teaching them three simple words: "Is it possible…?"

 

For example, when a mother is trying to help her daughter with her math homework and makes an error, her daughter, instead of saying, MUM, YOU'VE GOT IT ALL WRONG!" should say, "Is it possible you're making a mistake, Mum?"

 

"Is it possible…?" turns vocabulary that is arrogant into a vocabulary that shows respect for a parent. This is an invaluable tool for building humility.

 

ADMITTING MISTAKES

 

A final aspect of humility is the ability to admit our errors.

 

The arrogant person can do no wrong, while the humble person admits his mistakes freely. More importantly, the humble person always keeps in mind the possibility that he could be mistaken. The arrogant person accuses others of having done wrong without any evidence. The humble person asks in a polite manner.

  

TOOLS FOR INSTILLING HUMILITY IN CHILDREN

 

1: The best way to our teach children is by example.

 

An arrogant person can never teach humility. Since being a parent means we're in a position of authority, it's easy to slip into arrogance. "HOW DARE YOU DISOBEY ME!" is not the right way to react to a child who is not listening. Our job is to teach patiently and respectfully. The very manner in which we deal with our children's misbehavior can be one of the strongest tools for teaching humility. When we educate quietly, without yelling or insulting, we model humility.

 

Children are people too, even when they disobey you. Speak gently, maintain your dignity and theirs. If you think that the only way they will listen is if you yell, then you are not disciplining properly.

 

2: Kids should ask, not tell.

 

Parents must not only model behavior, they must also verbally teach it. When a child raises his voice to a parent, he must be corrected. Teach your children two rules: ask instead of tell, and speak in a pleasant tone of voice.

 

The three magic words are: "Is it possible…?" The question helps to foster humility in a child. It is important that children realize that adults, particularly parents, have a different status than children. Adults have more experience, knowledge, and authority than children. It is beneficial for children to look up to, rather than across, at adults. It enables them to learn the art of learning from others. An arrogant child can't learn from anyone.

 

3: Don't tolerate disrespectful speech.

 

The young child who is rude and disrespectful will grow into an even ruder teen who may actually swear and curse his parents. These behaviors don't arrive suddenly with puberty. They develop many years earlier from unchecked arrogance.

 

The following five-step program will help correct speech errors and foster respect and humility. Start with the first step and only proceed to the next one if necessary:

 

·        TEACH the child what you mean by "respectful" speech. Use examples and role-playing.

·        REMIND the child to use respectful speech and model it for him.

·        PROMPT the child during occurrences of disrespectful speech with: "tone of voice," or "speaking quietly please," or give the child the first few words: "Mummy, is it possible you forgot…?"

·        BLOCK disrespectful speech with: "Would you like to try that again more respectfully please?" As soon as the child corrects himself, the parent offers generous praise.

·        DISCIPLINE if necessary. When the child speaks disrespectfully, the parent might say something like, "We've been working on speaking respectfully for quite a while now and I think you know what you're supposed to do. From now on, if you raise your voice, use impolite words or demand instead of ask, you will have to write out the rules of respectful speech ten times." (You can choose another suitable consequence, of course.)

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·        When teaching a child to speak with greater humility and respect, be patient! It can take many years for children to really integrate these speech patterns into their automatic behaviors. Consistency on the part of parents greatly speeds up the process and leads to an overall positive relationship.

 

As your child grows and learns to speak in a respectful manner, he or she will naturally come to speak to everyone like that — to adults and to peers. Humility will become a way of life. You, the parent, will have given your child a priceless gift, the gift of humility.

 

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The one who love Imam e zaman(a.t.f.s) must be prepared to struggle and
labour his self, his pen and his wealth in the way of Imam e
zaman(a.t.f.s)
I remember the words of Imam (a.s), that we are responsible for the
duty, and not for the result. A warm smile washes away the tension of
confusion, as I thank Allah for the presence of my friend, whom Allah
may protect, and guide
IMAM E ZAMANA (a.f.t.s) Bless you And All Your Family those help others
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[shia_strength] !!! Simply Means !!! Urdu/English

 


اگر ہم سنتوں پرعمل کررہے ہیں

اس کا محض مطلب یہ ہے کہ ہم اپنے نبی

محمد  صلی اللہ علیہ وسلم

سے محبت کرتے ہیں



If we FOLLOWING SUNNAH, 

Its simply means we Love our Prophet 

Muhammad sallALLAH alehe wasallam

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Muslim Unite Shia and Sunni KHUTBAH : ARE THE MASAJID OF ALLAH REALLY MASAJID OF ALLAH PART 5

 

THE STREET MMBAR
JUM'AH KHUTBAH (21 March 2014)
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It is in such a manner that We make plain Our signs so that the course of the
Criminals may become clear.
Bismillah Ar-Rahmaan Ar-Raheem.
Alhumdulillah. Peace and blessings on Muhammad (sallalahu alaihi wa sallam), his Noble Companions and Family.
Committed Muslims, brothers and sisters …
 
 
ARE THE MASAJID OF ALLAH REALLY MASAJID OF ALLAH PART 5
This week, within the solar calendar, we begin the thirty second year of a forced, involuntary salat ul jum'ah in the street. These years are an indictment of those who are hypocrites and those who are enemies and those who are not true to their word and their covenant with Allah. For all of these types of people there have been over thirty one years of our presence here in the street at this time every week. One of the areas that people are cautious or afraid to go into is "why is this?" We are asked this question many times, "why is this?" If Muslims are brothers of one another and if committed Muslims are a fraternity as the ayah says
… but indeed committed Muslims are brethren of each other… (Surah Al Hujurat verse 10)
It's an ayah- it's clear. Its meaning is not foggy and not murky. Then is this an expression of brotherhood? You see some Muslims who go inside the Masjid and you see some Muslim who are banned and forbidden from going inside the Masjid by force- it's not something that is agreed upon and the people just don't want to get to the bottom of the issue. Because we are living in this movement from one year to the next, (we're moving from the thirty first year to the thirty second year), we want to state the facts as they are because many times we don't have the opportunity to say these things (and) to clarify them as they are in the course of the year.  So we will now spell it out as much as we can in the short time that we have why this is the case.
 
We are forced to pray here in the street because frankly speaking and honestly speaking because the people who are inside the Masjid have the money and the power and we don't have money and power but we have iman and principle and we are outside in the street. We've been like this for all of these years. Now we want to look at these who have this money and power and we want to look at them through the ayaat of the Qur'an and see how this issue of having money and power disturbs what is supposed to be normal relationships. What's all of this thing about money? The Saudis are not Bangladeshis. The Saudis are not Somalis. They are not people who are poor. When we say Saudis we mean the Saudi ruling tribe. These people have enormous resources and wealth. They have it in contradiction to Allah words. OK- what are Allah's words? Listen closely to how our relationship is with money and wealth and possessions and measure the Saudis to what Allah is saying. We'll take the first ayah from Surah An Nur.
Give or spend of Allah's money which He has given unto you… (Surah An Nur verse 33)
 
This is an order from Allah. The verb is give or spend. So this ayah is telling us this money and the power that comes along with it doesn't belong to anyone who has it. It belongs to Allah.
Give or spend of Allah's money… (Surah An Nur verse 33)
When we take an ayah like this we indict this Saudi tribal ruling family for being in violation of this ayah. Someone is going to ask "but the Saudis generously give out humanitarian aid, they give out gifts, they give contributions." The fact of the matter is they do give money but they give pennies relative to what they have.  If this kingdom has trillions of dollars in assets and in investments and in accounts etc., and then they come to an Islamic person or an Islamic entity and then they say "here- this is $10,000" or "this is $100,000" or in the most generous "this is $1,000,000" what is that compared to what they are giving the Zionists and the Imperialists and the hegemonic powers in the world? Where's "their" money? Let's think! These ayaat are meant for us to think. Where do they have this money? Do they have this money in their own banks? No! Do they have it in "Islamic" banks? No! There's something in the world called "Islamic" banks. These are a bunch of shenanigans. If you don't have an Islamic economy you can't have an Islamic bank! Truth be said- there is no Islamic economy so how can you have an Islamic bank?! You can fool the naïve but you can't fool those who are grounded in the Qur'an and the Prophet. Don't fool us with these names! So they don't even have it in these so called shells. They set up these shells- they did it themselves- but they don't even have "their" money in these shells that they set up for naïve Muslims. "Oh- you have some money, there's an Islamic bank or an Islamic loaning organisation of sorts" or this type of "Islamic" thing or the other. "Put your money there or get a loan from there" is what they tell us; how about them who are on the top who have all of these resources in the billion everyday? Where do they put "their" money? Do they put it there? They're supposed to be Islamic, right? Well, why don't they put "their" money in these so-called "Islamic" institutions, the non usury banks? Why don't they put "their" money in there? They are indicted by this ayah! They are condemned by this ayah and many other ayahs.
 
Another ayah in Surah Al Hadeed
Commit yourselves in faith and in deed in Allah and His Messenger and spend out of that which He has caused you to become mustakhlafin… (Surah Al Hadeed verse 7)
OK- what is this ayah saying? The mustakhlafin carries these shades of meanings. Mustakhlaf means that which He has caused you to inherit. That's one portion of the meaning- meaning that what you have is not actually yours, it came from some other source. Of course, the ultimate source is Allah and that's how Muslims should think. The other meaning of mustakhlaf is you're like a deputy. Allah's in-charge and you are doing His will in this amount of wealth or possession that you have. Another shade of the meaning of mustakhlaf is in which you represent Allah's will. So Allah has put you as a Khalifah in matters of money because in fact we are supposed to be representing Allah's will on earth in many areas but with the word spend the particular meaning of istikhlaaf has to do with money and resources.
… those of you who commit to Allah and then spend … (Surah Al Hadeed verse 7)
Today's mind, as wobbly as it is, thinks that iman is going to be followed by salah or is going to be followed by some ritual. No! Iman is followed by spending.
… they are the ones who can anticipate a handsome reward (or) a monumental compensation. (Surah Al Hadeed verse 7)
We take this ayah and we put it over the context of these Saudi rulers who because of the wealth that they claim they have are forcing us out into the street. Are they doing this iman and infaq? If there's any infaq that they are doing it's on these military complexes in the world that are killing us! Does anyone make the effort to trail their bank accounts? Where's all this money? Can anyone tell us? The fact that this matter is withdrawn from our public attention then that fact alone tells you that they are crooks and they are criminals because if they weren't they would be transparent as Muslims are supposed to be but they're not transparent. They're hiding things. When people hide things it means they are doing something wrong but they are doing in a magnitude unsurpassed.
 
In Surah Al Mu'mimun
Do they think (or) do they calculate that with all of what we have provided them and supplied them with resources and wealth and with manpower that We are causing them to expedite their movement towards prosperity? No, that's not the case- what they have is not a quick movement towards prosperity and towards plentyfulness. (Surah Al Mu'minun verse 65-66)
In time, nations live for centuries individuals live for decades. We hope Allah will reward us and honour us with seeing the demise and the destruction of this Saudi evil in our midst but per this ayah they can't feel what is happening to them. They have so much money they can't feel it; in other words they are digging their own graves with their own intentions and with their own deeds.
 
Then there is two or three ayaat in Surah Al Mudd'dath'thir- and we wish these Saudis had a mind and a heart that can listen to these ayaat
Leave Me alone... (Surah Al Mudd'dath'thir verse 11)
(Take a) look at this imagery (and) put this in your mind. Allah is saying on that day of accountability- (remember), Allah is All Powerful, Allah is Allah is All Knowing, Allah is Ever-present, etc. Allah is in the infinite superlatives. There's no way we can describe the infinity of Allah bur here He is trying to make us understand because we ourselves are not infinite. He's trying to make us understand a very important thing and that is when He personally is going to take on these types of billionaires and trillionaires how does He say it?
Leave me alone... (Surah Al Mudd'dath'thir verse 11)
Who is there to interfere with Allah? But He, as a form of speech, to communicate to us the seriousness and the wrath that is involved in this issue Allah says
Leave me alone with the one that I created as a singular. (Surah Al Mudd'dath'thir verse 11)
When this king (or) when this billionaire (or) when this Emir (or) when this tycoon (who) had all of this money and resources in this world now it's time for reckoning. "What did you do? What were you doing?" In this particular instance Allah is personally taking charge of accountability towards these types.
I provided him with unending money and resources, extended amounts of wealth and possessions. Also, there were posterity to him who can bear witness against him. And then he has the gall (and) he has the chutzpah to want more (or) for Me to increase what he has. (Surah Al Mudd'dath'thir verse 12-14)
This tells us this is the state of mind these people leave this world in. They're making billions and they want to make more- that's how they live and that's why Allah wants to make this a personal affair with them.
Absolutely not! He was stubborn when it came to our ayaat. (Surah Al Mudd'dath'thir verse 15)
That's how they are they were stubborn when Allah's speaking to them with manifestations of His power and authority. You who are out there in the world who are asking "why are asking why we praying out here in the streets?" Well, this is why we are praying; because of this psychology that exist with these types of people. They don't permit Muslims to enter the House of Allah or go to the Haram of Allah.
 
Some people have a hard time understanding and there's been political theories and there's been social and economic ideologies about this whole matter. What is our- you and me and every other human being even though they have all this wealth- relationship with money? How do we interact and behave when we have resources and money? There are capitalists who speak about this. There are socialists who speak about this and there's everything beyond that and in-between that. Let us tell you something that will simplify this whole matter (i.e.) how is a Muslim to consider and evaluate and behave when he or she has money. What does Allah say about this whole affair? We just said (and) we quoted some ayaat; there is many other ayaat in the Qur'an. The number of ayaat that have maal (i.e.) money, wealth and possessions in it is about fifty four ayaat. (In) forty seven of them when maal is mentioned it is mentioned as belonging to society, to people (and) to multiple individuals. It's only mentioned seven times in reference to one individual. Even if you don't understand the total meanings of what is in the details of these ayaat and other ayaat just comparing this little insignificant piece of information should tell us that Allah is trying to send us a message here. What is this message in a few words? We think on this manner we're going to quote three sources besides Allah and His Prophet. The Prophet of Allah says (about) this person who is this greedy and wants that much and who will never relinquish of what he has in any significant way- they'll give to feel good. Everyone has a conscience. They want to feel good so if they have all this money they want to give a little of it to feel good. (It's) that feel good effect. That doesn't count! This is not about a feel good effect, this is about a right.
… and in their possessions and wealth there is a specified right… (Surah Adh Dhariyaat verse 19)
For whom?
… for a person who is asking out of need and for a person who is deprived. (Surah Adh Dhariyaat verse 19)
How many people in this world are deprived? How many people in this world are in need? So when you give you give because you want to satisfy something inside of you that is telling you "hey look you better give a few dollars to satisfy your conscience"?! No, that's not giving the way Allah teaches us to give. So the Prophet says about these people the abdomen of the son of Adam when he dies is only going to be filled with dirt and Allah is forgiving for those who ask for forgiveness. Do people think like that? These people are expired (but) how long is this king and the princes around him going to live? They're on their way out but they don't behave like they're on their way out. They are so anxious to hold on to what belongs to Allah and doesn't belong to them to begin with. Al Imam Ali (alayhi as salam) says you are Allah's subjects and ibad and the money belongs to Allah. You see, you belong to Allah and the money belongs to Allah- both of us (i.e.) these two things in life belong to Allah. He will apportion this money among you in equal proportions. No one is more privileged to have it than anyone else. Then why do we have in this world people who have a lot and people who don't have anything? Umar ibn Abdal Aziz (radi Allahu anhu) who's considered by some to be the fifth Khalifah put it this way (while) speaking about the resources and the income and the treasury of the Ummah (or) the Muslims at that time. He said (what) is an echo of what Ali said, its equivalent to a flowing river and everyone has access to drink from it equally. Is this the way, they treat money, especially these ones who are occupying our Masajid? (Its) the same thing they do here- they offer a meal after Jum'ah prayers to satisfy their conscience! Why don't they reverse this? Why don't they go and offer these meals that they are offering here to their Zionist masters and why don't they give the money that they have in the Zionist banks to us?! We don't want the meal! They can't do that. Ask yourself why can't they do it? Imam Al Ghazzali is describing how the Sufis attitude is towards money and wealth (and we think this is probably the best way to put it), those who are Sufis consider money just like water and you don't drink more than what you need of water. (If) you're thirsty you go to a source of water and you drink whatever your body demands and then you leave. It goes on a little more but to summarise it- that should be our relationship to money. (Its) just like water- you take from it what your life needs and the rest goes (and) it keeps on flowing in society. That's the way it's supposed to be. This money has to flow in society just like rivers flow in the planet but this money doesn't flow. If we treated this issue just like that would you ever have banks that ever have water in them? Would you ever have at home a place where you are accumulating water like you are accumulating wealth? It would never be. This money would flow in society. Another ayah in the Qur'an says
… so that money does not become a cycle among the rich people from among you… (Surah Al Hashr verse 7)
Dullan means going around or in today's world recycled. But that's what's happening. That's exactly what's happening in today's world. Money is flowing only in the rich class and we, the rest of humanity, are in need. Out of seven billion plus, how many are in need (and) are deprived (and) are poor? How many? A good six billion! Those who are starving to death don't know if they're going to live to tomorrow or to next week are about one and a half billion to two billion people on earth! If our money was flowing in societies like rivers flow in geography we wouldn't have this problem; but we, the Muslims, who are supposed to exemplify this healthy attitude don't have it ourselves! So this is an indictment of these people who don't belong to an Ummah. They belong to their masters and their class of riches and wealth and because of that they come down on people who are people of commitment and people of principle and say "ok- stay out of the Masjid." Look- you have many individuals who come by and go by and have been doing so- whether they are Muslims or whether they are non-Muslims- in the streets or on the sidewalk and they think nothing is happening! We place all of this affair in the watchful eye of Allah and in His own reckoning and we leave it there.
 
Dear Muslims who are brave enough to be with Allah in your minds and in your hearts…
This is what some Muslims cannot tolerate (i.e.) when you begin to dot the I's and cross the T's- here's where some Muslims get a little nervous. Why? What's wrong? In the Qur'an Allah mentions Qarun by name.
Qarun went out into the dunyah- not with the ambition of Musa, but with the greed of Phiraun- and Allah gave him the fortunes and treasures of which just the keys to have access to them will bear down heavily on any mode of transportation. His people told him- understanding the events within context- "don't be happy, Allah does not like those who are happy within these types of times or within your types of terms and condition or within what you are doing." Seek with that which Allah has given you- all this wealth and resources- the final abode or the end-life and don't forget your share or portion of the world, and be generous the way Allah was generous to you or give to the degree of perfection or be as generous to others as Allah was generous to you and don't seek policies of destruction on Earth because Allah does not like those who cause destruction on Earth. (Surah Al Qasass verse 76-77)
In the Qur'an Allah mentions Abu Lahab.
Perish the hands of the father of flame, perish he; He will not profit from all his wealth and all his gains; Soon will he be burnt  in a fire of blazing flame; his wife shall carry the crackling wood as fuel; a twisted rope of palm leaf fibre will be around her own neck  (Surah Lahab)
In the Qur'an Allah mentions the Pharoah.
This Pharaoh figure had an elevated status in the world and then, he rendered the occupants of earth divided segments of people; then, this Pharoah takes a look at human society and finds that there are elements that are weak then he takes advantage of them, he oppresses them, he steals their resources; this is the nature of human corruption, chaos, mischief and trouble making. (Surah Al Qasass verse 4)
If we, in our time, want to take a look at our Phirauns, at our Qaruns, at our Abu Lahabs then Muslims become nervous! Why are you nervous? Allah has supplied you with enough information that should make you confident, not nervous! If we take a look at these crooks and the criminals who are in the Arabian Peninsula… (Take a) look- just yesterday or today this regime in Arabia, the Saudi regime, it issued a decree, (in their monarchical language). What's the decree? "They consider Al Ikhwan Al Muslimin to be terrorists." What a change from twenty and thirty years ago when these same people and this same regime brought Al Ikhwan Al Muslimin into this Masjid. We were still praying in the street but they were giving khutbahs inside the Masjid. Now these same people are terrorists! This syndicate of criminals in the Arabian Peninsula- we say this with full knowledge and grounding in the Qur'an and the Sunnah- is beginning to fall apart. In the past couple of days the Saudi regime- the same one who is the political playboy of Zionists and Imperialists- along with the one in the Emarat and the one in Bahrain is ganging up on another one that belongs to their so called Gulf Cooperation Council so they withdraw their Ambassadors. "Any member belonging to Al Ikhwan Al Muslimin or any other Islamic Organisation," by this official Saudi royal degree, "is considered a terrorist and is subject now to imprisonment." They say in this decree "even if you speak or write in support of them you will be considered one of them and therefore a terrorist." Some of these people are around here, they're in this city and they're all over the place from Islamic Parties (and) because they get the crumbs from the Saudis at the end of the month and at the end of the year they don't have a conscience to speak their mind! Where do they speak their mind? Behind closed doors among themselves! They can't speak truth to power! To take it even further, this Saudi kingdom of evil is thinking about placing Egypt in the Gulf Cooperation Council after what the Egyptian government is doing. It's showing that it is in tune with its counterpart across the Red Sea. What did the Egyptian Government do in the past week or two? It right now is officiating the topic that is to be discussed in the khutbahs on Friday in Egypt. They say "there is a hundred and thirty thousand Masjids in Egypt and the Government is in direct control of a hundred and twenty thousand of them. And in the last week they gave their scholars (for dollars) on the mimbars instruction to speak about the environment, about pollution and about this subject. And then ten thousand Masajid that are in Egypt that are not under direct control now the government is after them to put them under their direct control." Then, in the middle of this you would think wait a minute here- do the Muslims have enough spiritual and mental and moral backbone in them to speak to these issues?! These should be the topic of the Jum'ahs in light of the Qur'an and the Sunnah in all of the Masajid everywhere; but you go- you're free to enter this Masjid and other Masajid- and see what they are saying there. Listen with your God-given mind that is cultured by the Qur'an and the Prophet and you will know what side these people are on.
 
This khutbah was presented by Imam Muhammad Asi on the occasion of Jum'ah on 7 March 2014 on the sidewalk of Embassy Row in Washington D.C. The Imam previously led the daily and Jum'ah prayers inside the Masjid. His speeches were revolutionary and thought provoking, and eventually irritated and threatened the Middle-East Ambassadors who control the Masjid. Finally, the Imam, his family, and /other Muslims faithful to the course of Islam were forced out, into the streets. This khutbah originates from the sidewalk across the street from the Islamic Center, currently under seige. 
 

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